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Family scam safety checklist
Use this printable family scam safety checklist to set safe words, verify urgent calls, avoid gift cards or crypto, and report suspicious messages.
Reviewed June 10, 2026
Set a family pause rule
A shared pause rule makes urgent messages easier to handle. Agree that no one sends money, gift cards, crypto, payment app transfers, or account codes until the story is verified through another trusted channel.
The rule works best when everyone agrees to use it before there is a crisis. Put it in plain language: pause first, verify through a known number, and ask another trusted person before money or account access moves.
- Choose a family safe word for emergency calls.
- Keep a short list of trusted phone numbers.
- Agree that secrecy is a warning sign, not a reason to act faster.
- Verify through a second person before sending money.
Family action table
Use the same calm routine for calls, texts, emails, and letters that feel urgent.
If the request says
Do not tell anyone
Pause rule
Secrecy is a warning sign
Safer next step
Call another trusted person before acting
If the request says
Send money now
Pause rule
No rushed payments
Safer next step
Verify the story through a saved number
If the request says
Share a code or password
Pause rule
Codes stay private
Safer next step
Open the real account or app yourself
If the request says
This is an emergency
Pause rule
End the live pressure
Safer next step
Use the family safe word or a second contact
The goal is not to blame anyone. The goal is to make asking for a second opinion feel normal.
Print and keep nearby
This page should be readable when printed. Keep a copy near a phone, desk, or family message area for quick reference during urgent calls.
Add the names and phone numbers people should use for verification. Use numbers already saved in phones, printed on cards or bills, or agreed to in advance. Do not add passwords, account numbers, safe-word hints, or other private details to a public or shared copy.
Review the checklist after major life changes, new phones, new payment apps, travel, health changes, or a recent scam attempt. A five-minute review can make it easier to remember the routine when a message feels scary.
If someone feels embarrassed after a close call, keep the conversation practical. Start with what worked, what to save, and who to call next time. A checklist is easier to reuse when it feels supportive instead of punitive.
- Write the safe word somewhere private, not on the public printout.
- List two or three trusted contacts who can help verify urgent stories.
- Keep official bank, card, medical, and platform contact paths separate from suspicious messages.
- Practice saying, "I need to verify this first," before ending a call.
Use Olevo as one calm checkpoint
Olevo can help turn a rushed request into a short review: what was said, who claimed to be contacting you, what they wanted, and whether money, codes, identity information, or account access came up.
Use Olevo alongside direct verification. It is a second opinion, not a replacement for a bank, platform, emergency contact, agency, or law-enforcement report.
Trusted sources
Scammers use AI to enhance their family emergency schemes
Federal Trade Commission
FTC guidance explains that scammers may use voice cloning and emergency stories to push people into sending money.
AI Makes It Next to Impossible to Detect Scams. Now What?
AARP
AARP guidance describes current AI-enabled fraud, including deepfake video, cloned voices, and realistic messages.
Phone Scams
Federal Trade Commission
FTC guidance explains common phone scam signs, including pressure, threats, spoofed caller ID, and unusual payment demands.
Common questions
What is a family safe word?
It is a private word or phrase family members can use to help verify urgent calls or messages.
Should the safe word be shared by text?
Avoid posting it in shared or public places. Treat it like private family verification information.
What if the caller sounds like my family member?
Still verify another way. Voice cloning and panic can make calls feel real.
What is the safest first step?
Hang up or pause the message, then call the person or another trusted contact through a known number.